Not sure what "closure" you are looking for here. You were given a reason multiple times in game and multiple times above in this thread as to why your friend was muted. There may not be a specific rule about being inappropriate but when a staff member gives you a warning (short mute in this case) about something, that means it time to stop. Arguing about it and stirring up the chat is disruptive and was the reason for your long mute. Anyway, here's the log from it, minus some random chat in between. Seems pretty clear to me that you were given a reason (being inappropriate) and Elena used the long mute to take back control of the chat after it got out of hand.
Nutterie's Mute
2019-11-16 18:05:52
Novice
Wubzium
does anybody have a sweet berry
2019-11-16 18:06:04
Novice
Nutterie
ill suck someones stinky for a berry
2019-11-16 18:06:11
Novice
Wubzium
same
2019-11-16 18:06:22 Elena7 /mute Nutterie 10m
2019-11-16 18:06:44
Artemis
Elena [H]
ok a little mute is just warning
2019-11-16 18:06:50
Artemis
Elena [H]
friendly warning
2019-11-16 18:07:12
Novice
Wubzium
why was nut muted
2019-11-16 18:07:43
Novice
Wubzium
Elena7 why was nut muted
2019-11-16 18:08:06
Artemis
Elena [H]
because of the warning.. friendly one
2019-11-16 18:08:13
Novice
Wubzium
what warning
2019-11-16 18:08:14 Artemis Elena [H] inappropriateWubzium's Mute
2019-11-16 18:08:26
Novice
Wubzium
what did he say
2019-11-16 18:08:32
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
she wont repeat
2019-11-16 18:08:40
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
just like snurre wasnt going to yesterday
2019-11-16 18:08:53
Novice
Wubzium
why won't she repeat it
2019-11-16 18:09:09
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
because staffs are supposed to be role models
2019-11-16 18:09:12
Artemis
Elena [H]
because someone doesn't get it anyway
2019-11-16 18:09:27
Novice
Wubzium
ok so muting for no reason is being a role model
2019-11-16 18:09:32
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
jesus
2019-11-16 18:09:39
Apprentice
HotAir211
appeal on the forums
2019-11-16 18:09:39
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
there was a reason
2019-11-16 18:09:43
Artemis
Elena [H]
there is always a reason
2019-11-16 18:09:59
Novice
Wubzium
well it'd be nice for nut to know the reason
2019-11-16 18:10:06
Novice
Wubzium
so he doesn't do whatever he did wrong again
2019-11-16 18:10:17
Artemis
Elena [H]
and as I said it was a friendy mute, so she will be able to talk
2019-11-16 18:10:26
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
the person that got in trouble should know
2019-11-16 18:10:44
Novice
Wubzium
what
2019-11-16 18:10:52
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
especially when more than 1 person has spoken to them
2019-11-16 18:10:54
Novice
Wubzium
i'm just asking for the reason for nut
2019-11-16 18:11:02
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
he/she should know
2019-11-16 18:11:06
Novice
Wubzium
is it really that difficult to provide a reason
2019-11-16 18:11:11
Novice
Wubzium
well, he doesn;t
2019-11-16 18:11:16
Novice
Wubzium
and that's why i'm asking for a reason
2019-11-16 18:11:30
Hephaestus
B0T
lost let lena do the talking, dont make it more confusing
2019-11-16 18:11:36
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
ok lol
2019-11-16 18:11:37
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
wb
2019-11-16 18:11:41
Artemis
Elena [H]
other players already know how comes you need explanations
2019-11-16 18:11:45
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
im trying to be the best person ever
2019-11-16 18:12:01
Novice
Wubzium
can you just provide the reason
2019-11-16 18:12:05
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
because... I am the law.
2019-11-16 18:12:11
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
can you do this in PMs please
2019-11-16 18:12:12
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
huye
2019-11-16 18:12:21
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
Im getting tired of seeing this over and over
2019-11-16 18:12:26
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
^^^
2019-11-16 18:12:33
Novice
Wubzium
ame
2019-11-16 18:13:04
Novice
Wubzium
e
lena can you pm me what got nut muted
2019-11-16 18:13:18
Apprentice
HotAir211
just ride out the mute with grace
2019-11-16 18:13:21
Artemis
Elena [H]
I already talked to Nut
2019-11-16 18:13:28
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
what hotair said
2019-11-16 18:13:29
Novice
Wubzium
nuh uh
2019-11-16 18:13:32
Novice
Wubzium
he's sharing his screen rn
2019-11-16 18:13:41
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
please stop being fussy wub
2019-11-16 18:13:47
Novice
Wubzium
you told him "keep it appropriate in the chat"
2019-11-16 18:13:48
Novice
Wubzium
nuh uh
2019-11-16 18:13:54
Artemis
Elena [H]
yes so
2019-11-16 18:13:58
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
^
2019-11-16 18:14:01
Artemis
Elena [H]
that's the rule
2019-11-16 18:14:07
Novice
Wubzium
is it really that difficult to tell him what got him muted
2019-11-16 18:14:21
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
a kid got muted and his friend is being very persistent
2019-11-16 18:14:33
Novice
Wubzium
that's because i'd like to know what phrase got him muted
2019-11-16 18:14:41
Apprentice
HotAir211
the sweet berry line
2019-11-16 18:14:44
GrandMaster
CptChlOwOx
He should know.. If he needs anything clarified or feels that it wasn't warranted take it to the forums. I'm tired of hearing about it in chat
2019-11-16 18:14:50
Artemis
Elena [H]
so you don't know what appropriate means?
2019-11-16 18:14:52
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
c^^^
2019-11-16 18:14:53
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
exactly
2019-11-16 18:14:59
Novice
Wubzium
he doesn't know
2019-11-16 18:15:01
Apprentice
HotAir211
it was the s**k my sweet berry line ok
2019-11-16 18:15:07
Apprentice
HotAir211
no stop
2019-11-16 18:15:09
Novice
Wubzium
lol really
2019-11-16 18:15:10
Apprentice
HotAir211
now*
2019-11-16 18:15:35
Artemis
Elena [H]
too bad, we can't teach it here
2019-11-16 18:15:48
Adept
EarlMC
woah
2019-11-16 18:15:52
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
guys lena just dropped a bomb
2019-11-16 18:16:28
Novice
Wubzium
how is "ill suck a stinky for a berry" inappropriate
2019-11-16 18:16:33
Novice
Nutterie
Heres the problem Elena
2019-11-16 18:16:38
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt oh man
2019-11-16 18:16:40
Apprentice
HotAir211
oh ffs
2019-11-16 18:16:44
Starter
x_G_Money_x
because you are implying something
2019-11-16 18:16:47
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
are you an idiot lol
2019-11-16 18:16:53 Elena7 /mute Wubzium 10h
2019-11-16 18:16:55
GrandMaster
CptChlOwOx
This is a family friendly server. Nobody in chat needed to see that
2019-11-16 18:17:04
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
damn things always get interesting on the weekend
2019-11-16 18:17:04
Artemis
Elena [H]
the problem is mute
2019-11-16 18:17:06
Novice
Nutterie
I thoroughly read the rules during my mute and never saw anything about being "inappropriate"
2019-11-16 18:17:08 GrandMaster CptChlOwOx If you guys wanted to joke with eachother via /msg that's fine, but keep it out of chat. i'm only 9
2019-11-16 18:17:09
Novice
Nutterie
And to add on to that
2019-11-16 18:17:20
Amateur
J05huaIs52
cause like bruh family friendly means no cursing
2019-11-16 18:17:22
Adept
snackolivia
damn ma is it THAT serious
2019-11-16 18:17:22
J
ourneyman
LostAccouwunt
its a pretty self explanatory rule
2019-11-16 18:17:28
Novice
Nutterie
I have made jokes about literally fucking villagers multiple times around Mark among other staff with no problems
2019-11-16 18:17:31
Journeyman
LostAccouwunt
it doesnt have to be written anywhere
2019-11-16 18:17:45
Apprentice
HotAir211
elena is not mark tho no is she?
2019-11-16 18:17:45
Adept
snackolivia
nutterie different staff enforce rules differently
2019-11-16 18:18:53
Novice
Nutterie
So theres no clear set of rules, and players are expected to follow these blurry rules and arent given reasons to their mutes that break these blurry rules?
2019-11-16 18:19:00
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
oh gof
2019-11-16 18:19:02
Apprentice
HotAir211
just stop man
2019-11-16 18:19:04
Adept
snackolivia
dude
2019-11-16 18:19:05
Novice
Nutterie
and dont bother responding elena i wanna see what other people say
2019-11-16 18:19:07
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
please BE QUIET
2019-11-16 18:19:08
Adept
snackolivia
its not that serious
2019-11-16 18:19:16
Regular
ImJustABluBunny
lets not be karens
2019-11-16 18:19:21
Novice
Nutterie
Im not trying to fight im trying to get closure on the situation here
2019-11-16 18:19:29
Hermes
DannyBoy2000
bro there is closure