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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 2:13:21 GMT
Attachment DeletedHonestly is it wrong to want to bring humor to this server in a harmless way. If anyone was offended by my comments I truly am sorry but from the vibes I got I thought most people agreed it was funny. But the main reason I am making this post is from a comment Ken has made. Quote unquote Ken said "you truly are a 'special' one."T That is greatly offensive. Considering people have gotten suspended or even lost their jobs over saying or implying this kinda shit. Ken what would you have said for yourself if I did have some sort of mental condition. I believe there should be a public apology or some kind of punishment because this word should not be used lightly or even at all. Think about that. So if I get punished for saying something harmless dont you think Ken should be punished for implying something that offensive. Sincerely, Dan Attachment Deleted
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Post by mrnix on Feb 11, 2018 2:38:52 GMT
Isn't Dan 14?
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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 2:48:24 GMT
sure am Nix I honestly think those recent comments are innapropriate due to my age and the fact that i was trying to ask a question. Staff are supposed to be there to help you so I do not know how to respond.
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Post by FireSafetyDoggo on Feb 11, 2018 2:50:01 GMT
I see this post is calling me out, you called me here I am. So to answer your question the short way yes you do deserve it plain and simple. I had nothing to do with the mute for your “Joke” however I dealt with the childish aftermath to the punishment. So I’m here to discuss you attempting to get some form of punishment for my quote (which you couldn’t even get right) so what I actually said was “you're a special one.” Now it’s time to educate you. When I say your special I didn’t mean it in the way you perceived it. It had nothing to do with your mental state. As a first responder I deal with those who have those challenges and I would never use that in a derogative way because it hurts me to have to see people with those disabilities. The definition of special is spe·cial ˈspeSHəl/Submit Adjective 1. better, greater, or otherwise different from what is usual. "they always made a special effort at Christmas" synonyms: exceptional, unusual, singular, uncommon, notable, noteworthy, remarkable, outstanding, unique More Now where in there does it have anything to do with the mental stability of a person? That’s right nowhere. So for you to say that I meant that by simply reading text is preposterous. I would love for someone to be able to read just text chat which has no emotion and try and put emotion in it. You were angry so of course your brain is going to be like hey I’m angry and what he said was mean because he is staff and is against me. That is the issue with humans is that emotion plays a role in everything. If you were not upset about your mute you probably would not have anything to say about what I said. To wrap this up I did not ban you from discords so that is not my decision and I did not mute you so I have no decision in that either. You wanted to call me out so I wanted to come over and bring over the facts you looked over. You need to take a break and cool down anyways you came at every staff member when you said that we will ignore you if you post an appeal (I’m staff and I’m replying to your appeal) so take a day off and come back. Have a nice day, -Ken (Screenshot of chat is also attached to add validity to the quote which I said) Attachment Deleted
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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 3:13:50 GMT
maybe you are right that i miss perceived what you said in that scenario but it is kinda hard to ignore "staff" cursing you for asking a simple question. I look up to most of the staff as good guidance when i need it but i can hardly say that anymore about you ken. I dont even know if i can trust you after recent comments. So yes i will take my break from discord cooperatively but you cannot play the card that you are 100% innocent of everything i have mentioned especially since u cannot argue those screens of u cursing to my face. Even you have to agree you could have acted better about what you said just as i should have.
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Post by FireSafetyDoggo on Feb 11, 2018 3:16:13 GMT
I cursed at you yes because you frankly got annoying. you pissed me off because you called me out here and then come crawling over to discord asking to be unbanned. ofc your going to get some back lash from someone after that.
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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 3:22:52 GMT
and now u are publicly harassing me on the server save it to me directly if u got a problem, arnt u supposed to be setting the good example
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Post by jendestroy on Feb 11, 2018 4:18:06 GMT
yes u deserve the punishment you were being a general annoyance just from you spamming "MASSANI" in discord.
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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 4:26:19 GMT
jen i was already punsished for discord spam but honestly some of the things ken said to me were very inappropriate
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Post by Kitty on Feb 11, 2018 5:27:35 GMT
As staff we deal with hormonally unstable pre/teens all the time, every time we are online in fact. Its going to be a given with us staffing a game geared towards (in our eyes) kids(as all staff members are adults now.) We are only human, when annoying kids keep being annoying its going to get old real quick.
You are 14 and are going through a lot of changes at your age. Don't worry we were all annoying at that age and you'll grow out of it in time. You will be called worse then a "dumb ass" in your life time. Cursing is fucking awesome. It expresses a lot of emotion especially when in writing. You know what doesn't translate through text well? humor. I don't know all the facts on this case but can tell you many people have learned (the hard way) that it really is best to joke with your pals via PM when on the server or discord.
sometimes staff members can have a bad day or week and we just want to play with blocks with some friends. Sometimes we don't want to deal with the shit that comes with being staff. So sometimes words are said. Hell I know I've said some things to people that might have been "out of line" but sometimes some people just need to hear these words. We aren't gods. We aren't perfect and should not be expected to be. I think I would get at least 5 complaints a day if I told people what they sometimes need to hear.
so let me tell you what you need to hear: You were being an annoying kid and were muted for it. now learn from it, do some growing, and move on from it.
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Post by diamondbackdan on Feb 11, 2018 12:58:59 GMT
alright fine i will get over it but for all yalls out there peeps have lost jobs for talking to people that way. I just asked when i could come back on discord channel and then boom he flares off at me. But im done playing the victim card here bc im aware i did some border line things yesterday and very well deserved my punishment but keep in the back of your mind is lashing out at someone the best way to solve things I think all of us including me should think about that and keep it in mind. Ken I am sorry for the way I treated you, Mods have it tuff and like you said i was angry and that led me to perceive things in different ways than they are. If something like this happens again I will be sure to stop and think if it is really worth it. I will take the rest of my discord ban and will not spam it with complaints again. I do not want to be on bad grounds with the mods and I am aware of how difficult it is to regain the respect so once again Ken, sorry.
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